The Grammar of Us
Why do we keep having the same arguments? Why do we feel truly seen by some people and misunderstood by others? "The Grammar of Us" is a podcast that decodes the hidden language of human connection. We go beyond the surface of relationships to explore the underlying behavioral patterns—the unspoken rules, the recurring cycles, and the subtle communications that define how we treat each other.
Each week, we break down the syntax of love, conflict, and everything in between. Whether it's with a partner, a family member, a friend, or a colleague, we'll provide you with the tools to identify your own relational patterns, break negative cycles, and build more conscious, compassionate, and resilient connections. Tune in to rewrite your relational grammar and build a more fulfilling "us."
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The Grammar of Us
Protecting Your Peace: How to Spot Takers & Their Flying Monkeys
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They say it takes a village, but what happens when your village is full of people who only know how to take? In this essential episode of The Grammar of Us, we are getting real about energetic vampires, manipulators, and the people they send to do their bidding—the "Flying Monkeys."
We often ignore the early warning signs because we want to see the best in people. Today, we are tuning our ears to the specific "grammar" of a taker. How do they ask for things? How do they react to the word "no"? And how can you identify the third-party enforcers they send to guilt-trip you back into line?
Tune in to learn the practical tools you need to spot a taker before they get close enough to drain you, and how to shut down the flying monkeys without losing your mind.
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